Something New.

It took me 17 years of tears, sadness, joy, laughter and experience to be what I am here today. I believe every personality in each human being has a story behind them. One is acting in such way is because of something behind him/her, that we can’t see.

I realize, what I am here today is because of the story behind me. For what I failed in the past, for what I’d done and learnt, they planted my attitude in me. Sometimes, I wonder how people can act and do things different from me. Well, of course they are not me, that’s why we have different thinking and ways of doing things.

What we humans need to realize is that, we must not judge a person on the way they act. Instead of commenting and gossiping around, instead of under-estimating and looking down on some particular person, cursing and telling everyone else how one would be, have we ever thought of putting our shoes into their situation and start thinking their way?

I tried my best to understand everyone, for only by understanding their situation, I can only comment. You can blame one for stealing your belongings. But what if you got to know that, the one is actually facing some problems that caused him to do things to attract people’s attention? I’m not trying to say that he should be forgiven. But I want us, as humans to understand other people’s feelings as situation.

When I dwell into my past, I realize, that they wouldn’t be able to understand my situation for what I’ve gone through, they hadn’t. That moment, I knew that I am not considerate enough. When my friends are in trouble, I often take them as childish, fool, and being kiddo for thinking and feeling the way they are. But, who am I to comment when I’m not in the situation. I realize it isn’t easy to understand one person. It takes patience, a lot of time, and persuasion to do so,

Just like Christianity, a few years back, I didn’t have good impressions on Christian and the religion itself. I regretted. I now know that, before I start judging something, I must understand it first. For this case, I took the opportunity to explore on the religion. Read the bible, attend youth camps, and attend services. All come to know that, Christianity is just like Buddhism in a way. They exist in this world to help humans, to teach them the proper way of life.

Everything can be controversial, be it an issue, a misunderstanding, an argument, for there is always two side of everything. The pros and the cons. The good and the bad. The yin and the yang. What happens if you were to hear two different stories about the same incident? Do you not care? Or do you side the one who sounds truer? It is difficult. Humans act according to their feelings. One moment when we are angry, hurtful words were blurted. The moment we regret, at times it’s too late to change anything.

Understanding is something very deep. How would you consider one understands you enough? He knows that you don’t wear underwear? She knows that you don’t like grapes with seeds? Or that, he or she knows what you’re thinking when you are not verbally connected? Or is it that at the look of the eye, you would have all his or her thoughts at the tips of your fingers? Understanding is everything.

Now, I must try not to comment, criticize and condemn about others. I must learn to understand them, and be in their shoes, before I make any judgements. I must not be stubborn and must accept things that I don’t like. I’ll change for the better, but I still doubt that I’m able to do it. I’ll try at least. All the best to people who are facing difficulties. Its all about understanding. Hope you will understand this post too.