Thursday, September 07, 2006

Something deep

When you know that life’s all about receiving and transmitting, what would you define love as? Must it be a two sided way, as in.. I’ll only love if that person loves me? Must it be that only through sacrificing, you’ll obtain love?

In Christianity, love is a very wide word, different aspects to look on, once, a friend of mine told me, I LOVE YOU.. I thought it’s the love as in the one couple’s would say to each other, but i came to find out, its merely a word of comfort a word of encouragement, and a word of care. That really hurts. I wonder if that person’s reading this.. would it know how much they meant to me.?

Anyway, I’m not going to harp on it. Stubborn? Being stubborn is something good or bad? Say You?.. well, I would say its both. How would you define stubborn? One who stands on his ground and stay by his principles of life? But only this people will achieve what they want in life. Or, is it by not being able to adapt to the change of environment and the people they meet? That can be compromised.

Recommendation: Who mOVed my Cheese?

It is impossible to be tolerant all the time. You realize, ppl around you will always be there to test your patience, at times, you’ll blow like a volcano.. Why is it important that life is all about compromising? Humans must be selfish at certain things, but yet, at the same time must learn how to give and take.

I’d went through a lot of pain and sadness, to be what I am here today. Hiding behind the mask, something most of the ppl around us are doing that, while the dark secrets hid behind closed doors. To be positive is difficult.

One could say anything, could give all opinions, and all excuses, all advices, all consoles and one could be very rATIONAL, but NEVER, when they’re the victims of the problem.

That is why, never tell people what to do, never convince them to make decisions you think is right. But.. instead,give them choices& tell and show all the pros and cons, and let that own person decide, coz its his life. We have no rights to control him, We have no rights to decide for him, for he must know, what are the consequences and responsibilities to bear after certain actions are taken. Remember.. think before you act. And always look at a third party’s point of view. You can see it on a larger screen, and your actions would be more ethical than you previously decided.

Bless you all reading this with love and happiness,
Out stretch yourself to achieve your goals, don’t be too comfortable of what you have in your arms now

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