What matters the most?

Life was indeed a journey with many crossroads, one after another.

Many times, wrong decisions are made, and ALWAYS, we have to deal with the consequences our own.

Do we blame god for what happen? Do we blame ourselves for what is done?...Do we throw all the faults to others involved? Or do we blame the matter?

Its ALWAYS easier to push the blame to others, and avoid responsibility..

In the past, things has been changing, and it was never the same old me handling certain matters again

Many times, i'd made decisions following my heart. Which i believe is the best way of making a decision, for if you don't pampher yourself?No one would

There's this guy who once told me that it wasn't fair. And sometimes following your heart is not good, cause you need to take into consideration about people's feelings.

What matters the most?..Yourself?or the benefits of others?..

I'd lost friends, i'd lost things that is important to me. And what matters most to me vanished in thin air within a year...

At the end of the day, i chose to fret and be depressed for a period of time, and promised myself to pick myself up and walk ahead again,never looking back.

But i wouldn't change things i'm able to maintain. I promised myself, i would still take care and be concern about matters that are not my authority too..Well, at least i promise to be there when needed!!..

The path i chose, has lead me into a few crossroads, many times i gave myself a chance, but i forego it myself.This crossroad?... i'm going to take a change, something i dare not do, cause i'll loose more than i expect!

For what matters the most is not something material. Its something that is priceless, making people happy is what matters the most. Not hurting myself is what matters most..

What matters most is?..IT doesn't hurt people,and its righteous. HOwever, if its something i wanna do provided its legal, i would do it..and be prepared for failures..

Came across this bookmark i have in one of my old motivation books:

Is it the truth?

Is it beneficial to all concerned?

Does it build goodwill and better friendship?

is it fair to all concern?

adapted from Rotary International's

4 way test of things we think,say or do.

Think about it.. its easier said than done,but if you question yourself before doing?..usually, your rational and the conscience would hasten you on your actions if its not right.