What crap is it this time??

Do you realize that sometimes, when you’re involved with a problem or situation, only then you’ll think about a lot of things? Like, how did it happen and why? Or you doubt whether it should start? The worst thing is, you’ll only think it over when you’re facing problem

We humans would only opt to think rationally when we get our asses dipped into the trouble well. We would only realize we fell when we are hit by GIGANTIC sledgehammers. Sometimes it just sickens the condition as you couldn’t figure out a way to solve the matter.

In love, we face dilemmas. Does compatibility outweighs love? When you’re in love, you would forgive one’s doing. When you’re in love, you would do anything to adapt to your partner, you sacrifice everything you could, to make yourself compatible. You’re doing it just because your girlfriend or boyfriend likes it. Have you ever thought of doing something that you both enjoy? Thought of it?? Think again...

I believe compatibility outweighs love. No matter how much you love one person, if you don’t share the same interest or background, anything, thoughts, favourites, how is it possible for you to be together for long? You argue because you have different perceptions. You don’t argue because he/she is so called the one you love. You say, he’s my boyfriend, I must tolerate. You say, she’s my girlfriend, I love her, I accept the way she is. Of course, unconditional love means total acceptance. Of course, love means sacrifice. But its more than that. In the first place, how you define love?

At first sight? Hmmm… how can you like someone who shares total different opinion than yours? No.. you can love someone that is different, God made couples to compensate each other. But would it be everlasting if you don’t share common ground? Yes? NO? think again?

You tell yourself, don’t give up. It could last. Compromise, tolerate cause you love your partner, but would it last. After many arguments? After many disagreements? You say, I still love you. I know you love me, but you never like what I like to do, maybe you obligate yourself to like what I do. If we were to have different perceptions, no matter how much you love me, would you be happy? Would I be happy? You said its for love. Yes, when we just talk bout normal daily routines that happen? Yes, when we don’t bring in our principles in life. Stubborn is good in a way.. but not when it does no good, and it hurts others..

At the end of the day, being a youngster, I can’t define love myself. I’d felt love once before, and I know, its much more of liking. Prompt this question to yourself, you love one because they understand you? Or do you love one because the one is of your criteria? Or do you love one cause you spent your saddest moments with them by your side. Companion is important. Only love when you’re comfortable with the person, you felt secured, you felt loved, you felt that someone understands you. That won’t stop you from doing what you want. But encourages you, and brings you awareness if the deeds were wrong. Change cause of the presence. Not because they want to change you. Not cause you want to change for them.