I'm not someone who likes to wait..

neither am i someone who likes to ask again and again whether it is confirm or not..

So, i get annoyed asking, and i didn't even blow up. Instead i just asked if I'm irritating the other party or not.

But all i get is, a comment saying that they don't LIKE me saying that. Because they never say that.

I didn't even SAY they DID.. i just ASKED if i AM or not. Because i THINK i am

What is wrong, when i ask to decide where to go, for their convenience. And asking a few times, just to get back a respond asking me to tell em where to go?

I'm not fetching and neither am i driving my car. What rights do i have. I feel bad to make people come all the way, or making decisions and giving people difficulties. And all i get is the word PISSED!!!

I'm not mad now. I just don't understand, how it worked for other people. Usually, i asked just once, and double confirm. When i don't get answers, I ask again. And when they still don't answer, usually i get the implication that either they don't want to answer or they think i'm irritating. So.. i wouldn't wanna put the blame on them. So i question whether am i pestering or not. Its a question. I guess maybe they are bored answering me. That i am not pestering.

I just hate repeating questions that people either they don't want to answer or they don't know how to answer. And, when i decided to make the decision, and ask their opinion. They emphasize on the 3word phrase m i irritating rather than the solution.

Which concludes.. NO SOLUTION .and the thing got stucked. Then i have to apologise. I think i'm wrong for always asking the same question again and again. But i can't help it if they don't answer. And i can't help it if they are not responding to their questions. So? I prompt them questions. on whether am i disturbing or annoying them or not. Cause THEY DON'T SEEM TO ANSWER ME. NEITHER DO THEY SOUND ok.

And i get a word PISSED.

I don't know what i should do.. Can anyone help me? Am i at fault? I don't wanna put people at fault. This is really depressing.