- Correct timing
- Mutual understanding
- Actions from both parties
- Correct words
- ...
So its all hard work to see whether your effort pays off or not. I always believe that, if you work hard to get something you want. Its only a matter of time, but its definite that you'll be able to achieve it. TRUE?
Its about the determination, many gave themselves excuses to avoid responsibility. Many chose to read out the factors that hesitate them. How many of you plan that far?.. You said you wanna be rich, at the same time you tell yourself its impossible, then?..you complain day and night and make your own life miserable. Will that enrich you?..NO!!!
When one always say they treasure you, usually you believe them without doubts,cause you care and love them! However, if you put your feelings aside, and feel with an empty heart. You know, sometimes, they say it to avoid problems, like a spell, once said, you'll be forgiven. Like the word sorry.
If one treasures you, they'll take actions to avoid losing you. They show how much they care. And how many actually practice that principle?..
Just because its long term, needs alot of effort, time consuming, doesn't mean its not worth it. Because, when people leaves us, its too late to regret, it'll be great if you don't. Sigh...
What is there to measure a friendship..when we move on with our lives, we experience, and perceptions change according to environments. Previously, human may like apple of all banana and oranges, but when the human knows that there's grapes nextdoor, they'll change their preferences.. (if you get what i mean)
no matter how hard you try, will it pay off?.. how important the pay off would be? you're more a self satisfaction achiever?or a reward payoff achiver?...its in your head its in your heart. But when you talk about relationship..or friendship, its always mutual!!..
signing off~


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